Thursday, January 6, 2011
I want you to want me...
The female is a mystical creature. From the time she is created she is brought up to believe in "the fairy tale"... Love! Love is at the center of the perfect woman's world- she exudes love...she is the personification of it. If a woman is loved, it means she's beautiful-someone thinks she is special...in a world where women are ....disposable. That's right, as a female, you are taught, that a man's love for you proves that you are different... Now how does this explains why a female is often put off if she feels like a man isn't attracted to her, physically or otherwise? Its easy...her sense of security is shaken... Its hard for a girl to feel unwanted. She looses that confidence in the one thing that we women always have to fall back on...our beauty. Women are taught that there is one main way for a man to value you....and that's physically. So it doesn't matter who he is...her boyfriend, best friend, neighbor classmate or deacon....a woman wants a man to want her....just for her own gratification...even if she prays nightly that he never acts on these feelings.
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ReplyDeleteInteresting. So does that mean the notion or concept of being "platonic" is actually an illusion? What I mean by that is, if you want all men to want you why be interested in having male friends that don't want you?
ReplyDelete“So does that mean the notion or concept of being “platonic” is actually an illusion?” Of course not…between same sex friends (lol). No but it is difficult to find a platonic friend of the opposite sex. The fact that two people are friends means that they each posses qualities that the other find attractive. So on some level, they are attracted to each other, they are intrigued by the other’s mind, impressed somehow with their being. Friendship is a relationship…just w/o the booty (if your smart). Like I said, a woman wants to feel reassured in her beauty and personality, but that doesn’t mean she wants to be in a romantic relationship with the guy. So even if he is attracted to her, that doesn’t mean they cant be friends simply in the platonic sense. As we all know, there are many benefits to have a friend of the opposite sex—they are more likely to give you an opinion or advice based on a different perspective and that is extremely valuable. Therefore women definitely want men as “just friends” and usually realize that having him as a friend, not muddying the relationship with complicated feelings and desire, is ultimately the best way to go. Once both people are on the same page, regarding not crossing the line, their friendship is free to blossom into something beautiful based in mutual respect. Hopefully that answers the question.
ReplyDeleteanswered, stamped, all that shit. I can't argue with that explanation. I appreciate it
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